On the 2nd February 2019, Dewald Ras and Francois Henning, two fathers from South Africa, will start their journey to the roof of Africa.
This is the story behind my Mount Kilimanjaro climb.
About me and this crazy idea.
I think it is only fitting to give you some background about me and how I came about this big idea to climb the highest peak in Africa. I am 33 years old and husband to an amazing wife and father of three beautiful little humans. I have been blessed with these three healthy kids and my family is definitely the thing I am most grateful for.
Expecting our youngest
When we were expecting our youngest, we went for the routine 12 week scan and everything went well. The doctor took some bloods and said that if we don’t hear from her in a week, we know everything is fine with the baby. After a week of no phone calls, my wife received a call from our doctor.
“We picked up some enzymes in your blood and I think you need to come and see me right away. I don’t think it is necessary to be alarmed, but I do need to discuss the results and options with you and Dewald.”
Chats with the doctor
We found ourselves across our doctor’s desk the following morning, anxiously waiting for her to tell us what was wrong with our baby girl. Without boring you with too much medical lingo, the lab found higher than normal levels of an enzyme typically linked to chromosome abnormalities like Down’s syndrome.
We had to schedule an appointment with a foetal specialist in Pretoria, but could only do the tests at 18 weeks gestation. Which would mean 5 weeks of anxiety-filled days. I will admit that it was quite a shock to hear that this growing baby might not be “normal”.
And I very quickly realised how we just assume that our children will be healthy when they are born. In the weeks before our appointment at the specialist, my wife and I had many serious conversations about how our lives might be different and whether we would be ready to take on the challenges that came with raising a special needs child. You see, we never even for a second considered the first option that so many doctors will lay on the table. We knew that this child was a blessing and that God would not ask of us to follow His lead if we weren’t strong enough to face the challenges associated with it. As with our other kids, this baby would be unconditionally loved regardless of her health condition.
Our daughter was born
Our daughter was born on the 21st of July 2016. Perfect in every way. I will forever have great respect for those parents who also choose to love their child, regardless of what others might view as a disability.
Climbing Mount Kilimanjaro has always been in the top three of my bucket list items and after reading this amazing book called Big Five for Life by John P. Strelecky, I made the decision to stop making plans for “someday in the future” and get things done! One of my big fire for life items is to make a difference to those who are less fortunate and I have therefore decided to combine two of my biggest passions and goals.
Climbing Mount Kilimanjaro
On 2 February 2019 I will start my journey with Follow Alice to the summit of Kilimanjaro in an effort to raise R200 000 for the Down Syndrome association of South Africa, whose focus is on strengthening the voices of our youth in terms of self-representing and speaking up for their rights. One of the challenging areas these young adults face is training opportunities and employment.
Having a positive impact
If I can have a positive impact on just one kid, it would have been worth it. And I would like to challenge you to try to make a difference too.
“The difference between what we do and what we are capable of doing would suffice to solve most of the world’s problems.’Mahatma Gandhi.
If you would like to donate to Dewald and Francois’ fundraising efforts, check out their page here.